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Happy July!!! Is everyone getting ready for the fourth tomorrow?! I plan to just sit on the beach, relaxing with the hubs and pup! If you're new around here, at the start of each month I do a little round up of my favorite posts, trends, or products from the previous month! Catch up on past “10 Things I Love” if you have some extra time!
My Birthday
ICYMI, last month I officially hit a decade of adulting! These last ten years have been a rollercoaster. While I am beyond grateful for where I am today, and wouldn't necessarily have wanted a “crystal ball” I did write a post on what advice I would've told my 18 year-old self, which I think is applicable to most stages of life.
Reading
Summer is always my favorite time to settle into a good book. It's a great time to slow down, reflect, and grow. Here are some of my favorite memoirs by women I think everyone should read.
Orange Is The New Black
Since you already read about the memoirs I recommend, it should probably come as no surprise that I am a huge Orange Is The New Black fan, even before the show. These last two seasons keep getting better in my opinion. I love how they are tackling real issues that our countries criminal justice system faces. There's the obvious more talked about: police brutality; but the not so obvious which I hope people don't over look during this season: felons and inmates are treated like animals, less than animals, they are treated like they don't exist (in my opinion, thats worse than being treated like dirt). You see, our criminal justice system is built around punishment. It's designed to increase recidivism back into the system.
This season of OITNB happens over the course of four or five days during the riot, and I know some people on twitter were super pissed about that, but they clearly had their eyes closed! This season maintained the typical comedic relief in such a desperate situation, which maybe led people to overlook the amount of truth and reality on critical issues they shined a light on in those few days. Inmates can't get access to basic things like adequate health care (imagine if you were totally cut off from credible doctors who can actually make a diagnosis, help you get the appropriate medications, or even from something as small as tampons). Or, imagine being cut off from humanity, and in turn losing your own.
If that's not good enough reasoning to look at how we are doing things, then ask yourself why was President Obama the first ever sitting President to visit a federal prison? *cough* not wanting to face guilt and shame at the system? *cough* This is something that's ignored in our country and then we wonder why crime rates are so high. I hope this show continues down this road. Jenji Kohan said that while the show is contracted for 7 seasons currently, in theory could go on forever. I hope she extends it!
Understanding Health Insurance
Health insurance has always been something that totally confuses me or overwhelms me. I spent some time getting all the terms down, I called my doctors to make sure I understood what was going to be covered and shared it all with you guys in my post on understanding health insurance.
Sharing My Heart
June also marked seven years since my dad passed away. The year he past away Father's Day happened to fall on my birthday. This year I decided to open up about him in my post, A Fatherless Father's Day.
My Office
Did you catch my official Jungalow inspired boho office reveal last month?!? Ugh, it feels SO good to have my office done! I spend so much time in here each day that I needed a bright and clean space to really get the creative and productive juices flowing. This was the first room I have ever decorated 100% by myself in my life! It felt so good to see my vision come to life and can't wait to share the other rooms with you as they come together the next few months!
Conference-ing
I attended my first every blog conference this year!! I had so much fun meeting other bloggers, drawing some inspiration and motivation from the energy, and of course, learning how to improve! Honestly, blogging is one of those things thats always evolving and changing, I feel like the potential and things to learn are limitless! As an introvert attending a conference can be tough, so I share my 10 tips for making the most out of a conference as an introvert.
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Mindset Shifts
I don't know about you, but it seems like all the negativity in the world has been rearing it's ugly head and impacting the conversations coming into my life. Without even realizing, I started to give into it, gossiping a little more, being a little more passive aggressive, and just generally throwin' shade. I noticed it was a lot of other people's energy around me that I was feeding off of. So I decided to cut out the toxicity, excuse myself from those conversations, and keep peoples names or topics out of my mouth that don't serve me. I also loved this guest post on understanding health insurance which gives actionable advice on shifting your mindset.
Summer Dates
Summer has so many options of things to do! But sometimes, summer dates can feel a little played out. I shared some of my favorite summer date ideas for when your broke, that are a little more unique than “watch a sunset!”
Noosa
I know I worked with Noosa on Instagram, and this part is not sponsored, but just SO dang good! You guys, if you're looking for a delicious yogurt and over the boring flavors, you have to try out Noosa! They use natural and non-GMO ingredients (yes even their milk is tested for non-gmo's and if you know about the dairy industry, you know what a big deal that is). I am loving the coconut and strawberry rhubarb. My friend Michelle from She's Not So Basic recommends “the coconut yogurt with berries, almond butter, cacao nibs, flax seeds, and chia seeds” – which legit sounds UH-mazing and I am totally trying it ASAP!
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My Forbes Articles On Work-Life Balance From June:
How To Achieve Work-Life Balance Before 9 AM Every Day
5 Entrepreneurs Share Advice For Working From Home
How This Millennial CEO Integrates Work & Life To Create The Ultimate Workplace
Digital Nomads Living The Vanlife Share Challenges & Work-Life Balance Tips
CEO Of Mindbodygreen Shares How He Encourages Work-Life Balance
Looks like you have head quite a productive month. I was great to go and read your previous posts. Followed you on Twitter.
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Your office is just the cutest!! And yay for summer birthdays! I feel like no matter how old you get, birthdays will always be special. It’s my fiance’s 30th today!
Sounds like you had an awesome month! I can’t wait to go back and read some of these! I understand the pain of losing a parent. I lost my mother last year. Thank you for sharing your story 🙂
Cassie
Cassie’s Big Adventure
I wasn’t a huge fan of the latest OITNB season, but I really liked the last episode! PS your office is so adorable!
I still can’t decide if I liked this season of OITNB… some aspects I did but still so mad about Poussey!
You had such a great month! I absolutely love your office –and too funny, I figured out all the ins and outs of my health insurance this month, too!
I watched OITNB for the first two seasons then gave up my Netflix account, so I’ve missed it so much. I need to resubscribe so I can catch up!
I love Noosa! The coconut flavor is my favorite, but I’ll only buy it when it’s on sale! It can get pricey!
I love the pumpkin Noosa that they have at Target!
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Yay I am going to the beach today, too! So excited. The weather is so freakin beautiful. I was just in fL last week, but I came back to similar weather here in NY, so I’m pumppppped. Loved how you wrote about mindset in this post a few times. It really changes your life when you choose to rid of the negative & sprinkle positivity into the world xx
Happy Belated Birthday! So glad you had a great birthday month!
I am off to see your office, it looks so darn cute!
xo, Lily
Beauty With Lily
So many great links I need to visit and read now. Thanks for sharing!
Happy Birthday! I love that you figured out your health insurance! It’s so important to understand what’s covered now because you just never know…
June was a great month! I will have to Noosa. I’m always looking for new yogurts to try since I get bored really easily with their taste or flavors.
xx, Melissa
http://elephantontheroad.com
Happy Birthday! It sounds like you had a wonderful June! June was a great month for me too! So awesome that you got to to go BlogHer!
OMG anything related to insurance also confuse me! It’s like why is aduling so difficult! Haha
OITNB was really good. I loved Taystee and Allison this season. Her backstory especially was fantastic.
Yes girl– way to make such meaningful strides in June. Health insurance has always overwhelmed me too. I really appreciate your post on it– so helpful!
xoxo,
Liv
http://www.livslookbook.com
You have a great list! I loved your list of memoirs and your birthday post. Hope you had a wonderful birthday month!
Great list. My birthday is in June also. Happy belated birthday!